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Operation EMA
#1
Hey, it’s me, Ami A Rascal (?) it’s a question really. But I feel confident that this is all happening for a reason. Before I met him, I was happily independent. He swept me off my feet. Since I can’t go into details, let’s just say we have been working together for a while. Enough time to get to know each other and have found ourselves in the same situation. We have tons in common. He’s the man of my dreams.  I’m recently divorced. He’s not……yet. I have to wait. I understand that. There are things in his life keeping him where he is at. Can’t go into details on that either. I just have not been able to scream from the rooftops that I am in love with him. Looking for a way to connect with people in my situation without judgement.
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#2
Welcome Ami,

If do some reading here you will find many stories similar to yours.  

Good Luck.
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#3
Welcome, I like your playful name!
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#4
(02-02-2025, 09:22 AM)Brigit Wrote: Welcome, I like your playful name!

Thank you Brigit. I was hoping to be able to chat with people on this site because I need somebody to talk to one on one. Desperately !! How do I do that? Are we able to Private message? We aren’t supposed to give TMI publicly so I don’t know if this site is for me. 
As I have a lot to talk about!!! 

Feeling stuck,
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(02-01-2025, 07:24 PM)MissFabulous Wrote: Welcome Ami,

If do some reading here you will find many stories similar to yours.  

Good Luck.
Thank you. 

I have read some already.. Since we’re not supposed to give TMI, like people’s professions and stuff like that,  I’ve already read where a woman said their MMs job,  and I won’t do that. I have promised to keep a secret.
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(02-02-2025, 09:47 AM)amiarascal Wrote: Thank you Brigit. I was hoping to be able to chat with people on this site because I need somebody to talk to one on one. Desperately !! How do I do that? Are we able to Private message? We aren’t supposed to give TMI publicly so I don’t know if this site is for me. 
As I have a lot to talk about!!! 

Feeling stuck,

Can you not get the main points across without divulging details? It may be more helpful to have a thread than to PM people, especially while you are getting to know us and we you. When you are new, you don’t have access to the full site for safety reasons, but keep posting and in a few weeks (I think?) you will get access to the full menu.

That said, the site can be slow due to low traffic, which I think is in part because it operates without any advertising. 

Maybe one of the Mods can give you more info.
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(02-02-2025, 10:23 AM)Brigit Wrote: Can you not get the main points across without divulging details? It may be more helpful to have a thread than to PM people, especially while you are getting to know us and we you. When you are new, you don’t have access to the full site for safety reasons, but keep posting and in a few weeks (I think?) you will get access to the full menu.

That said, the site can be slow due to low traffic, which I think is in part because it operates without any advertising. 

Maybe one of the Mods can give you more info.

Thank you.
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#8
Welcome Ami

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#9
PS You can add details just don’t mention actual names, places or anything that could identify a specific person. But you’re allowed to explain your situation!
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