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			<title><![CDATA[Single W involved with MM]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22011</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 00:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3686">ros.e.pur.</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Been involved on and off with a friend before he got married. He moved overseas and met a girl and they got married and had a baby but our affair is still ongoing online. I like to see other ppls perspectives who are in similar situations]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Been involved on and off with a friend before he got married. He moved overseas and met a girl and they got married and had a baby but our affair is still ongoing online. I like to see other ppls perspectives who are in similar situations]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Intro]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22000</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 21:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3673">Clodiapulchra</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[I’ve been married for almost 30 years to the same man and began a long-distance affair with someone from my past about two years ago. We live on opposite coasts but have managed to spend 3-5 days together 4-5 times/year. He has a partner that he hasn’t slept with or lived with in 4+ years. They’re now more like family than romantic partners but as an only child with no surviving family, he’s thoroughly immeshed in her family and thus far been too afraid to have a conversation about “breaking up”. I have safety and security and companionship in my husband but would leave him to follow this new path with the other guy who makes me feel like the person I’ve always wanted to be and inspires me to do things and learn things I’ve always wanted to.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’ve been married for almost 30 years to the same man and began a long-distance affair with someone from my past about two years ago. We live on opposite coasts but have managed to spend 3-5 days together 4-5 times/year. He has a partner that he hasn’t slept with or lived with in 4+ years. They’re now more like family than romantic partners but as an only child with no surviving family, he’s thoroughly immeshed in her family and thus far been too afraid to have a conversation about “breaking up”. I have safety and security and companionship in my husband but would leave him to follow this new path with the other guy who makes me feel like the person I’ve always wanted to be and inspires me to do things and learn things I’ve always wanted to.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Since 2009]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2026 15:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3670">2445Boston</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[I am a MW with a MM since 2009. Ups and downs but overall UP.. Now that I am closer to retirement, I am not sure I can see him as often. Harder to get out of the house,etc. <br />
Just sad to think that I might lose him after all this . Anyway this is hard for me to open up . I can tell more of my story later]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am a MW with a MM since 2009. Ups and downs but overall UP.. Now that I am closer to retirement, I am not sure I can see him as often. Harder to get out of the house,etc. <br />
Just sad to think that I might lose him after all this . Anyway this is hard for me to open up . I can tell more of my story later]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Between my head and hart.]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21992</link>
			<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2026 09:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3665">girlnextdoor.</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi all, <br />
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I'm having an affair with someone from my work. It was absolutely not planned, we just fell in love with each other. He has a family as well. Although I think the feelings from his side are true, somtimes I am just stuck between my feelings and my head. I hope to find supportive people here and a place where I can speak freely.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi all, <br />
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I'm having an affair with someone from my work. It was absolutely not planned, we just fell in love with each other. He has a family as well. Although I think the feelings from his side are true, somtimes I am just stuck between my feelings and my head. I hope to find supportive people here and a place where I can speak freely.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Single women involved with a married man]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21989</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2026 11:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3663">Aquarius5137</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Things have got serious very quickly with my married man, we started as friends about two years ago and in the last two months things have intensified. Looking for support navigating this unknown territory.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Things have got serious very quickly with my married man, we started as friends about two years ago and in the last two months things have intensified. Looking for support navigating this unknown territory.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Single, but involved with married man]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21984</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2025 20:47:50 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3660">Stillfunn</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[I cannot really talk about this with friends and family - so here I am.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I cannot really talk about this with friends and family - so here I am.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Ello!]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2025 16:01:52 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3654">mistress_ava_</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hello everyone you can call me Ava, it’s my Trix name anyway so it works. I have been the other woman for two years now. I was in a relationship of seventeen years until now. I left because my married man showed all of the things that I was missing, that I didn’t even know I needed or wanted. I actually met him thirteen years ago, and have had a crush on him ever since. I did meet him at work but we don’t work together. Our situation is very different. His wife told him she didn’t love him anymore quite a few a years ago, and stopped being intimate a few years before that. She told she was moving out a couple of years ago, but quickly figured she couldn’t afford to do so. Or how good she had it where she was….who knows. He lives his life and so does she. Like I said, very different. I didn’t know he was married when we “met”. I have never been with a married man in my life, and was raised to believe it very wrong to do so. Which is why I can’t understand why I don’t feel bad about what I have done. I just enjoy us.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello everyone you can call me Ava, it’s my Trix name anyway so it works. I have been the other woman for two years now. I was in a relationship of seventeen years until now. I left because my married man showed all of the things that I was missing, that I didn’t even know I needed or wanted. I actually met him thirteen years ago, and have had a crush on him ever since. I did meet him at work but we don’t work together. Our situation is very different. His wife told him she didn’t love him anymore quite a few a years ago, and stopped being intimate a few years before that. She told she was moving out a couple of years ago, but quickly figured she couldn’t afford to do so. Or how good she had it where she was….who knows. He lives his life and so does she. Like I said, very different. I didn’t know he was married when we “met”. I have never been with a married man in my life, and was raised to believe it very wrong to do so. Which is why I can’t understand why I don’t feel bad about what I have done. I just enjoy us.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Found Forum]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 02:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I am so glad I found this forum. Even if it is just to be able to tell someone,  anyone.  <br />
I'm in a situationship with a man, we'll call Eros, who has a long time girlfriend that he has told me he will never leave. They do not live together but spend most weekends together.  <br />
I love our relationship. <br />
We met about 3 years ago as I was planning a trip and his family is from there so our mutual friend introduced us. We obviously got along very well. At the time I was married,  and when he propositioned me I declined as I love my husband.  <br />
Fast forward to 18 months later my husband was an alcoholic,  got very sick and died by suicide.  I got a job in the same place our mutual friend worked so I reached out to Eros to say thanks for all the help planning my trip, my life imploded and if he still wanted to meet I'd be open to meeting with him.<br />
We have been seeing each other ever since. Its sporadic due to his work, but he calls, texts or emails me practically every day. Sex is off the charts amazing,  friendly banter is fantastic and I say he keeps me together like twine and drying glue. <br />
We could never be really together,  I know that, even if he wasn't with his SO , financially, geographically and his religion culture are not in synch at this time. I do believe in some parallel universe we are blissfully together.  <br />
I have already told him when his SO and him move in together I am out of the relationship.<br />
Until then, I am enjoying every moment of attention from this amazing man There truly isn't another unique individual out there like him. And I have no regrets. Life is meant to be Lived and well loved.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am so glad I found this forum. Even if it is just to be able to tell someone,  anyone.  <br />
I'm in a situationship with a man, we'll call Eros, who has a long time girlfriend that he has told me he will never leave. They do not live together but spend most weekends together.  <br />
I love our relationship. <br />
We met about 3 years ago as I was planning a trip and his family is from there so our mutual friend introduced us. We obviously got along very well. At the time I was married,  and when he propositioned me I declined as I love my husband.  <br />
Fast forward to 18 months later my husband was an alcoholic,  got very sick and died by suicide.  I got a job in the same place our mutual friend worked so I reached out to Eros to say thanks for all the help planning my trip, my life imploded and if he still wanted to meet I'd be open to meeting with him.<br />
We have been seeing each other ever since. Its sporadic due to his work, but he calls, texts or emails me practically every day. Sex is off the charts amazing,  friendly banter is fantastic and I say he keeps me together like twine and drying glue. <br />
We could never be really together,  I know that, even if he wasn't with his SO , financially, geographically and his religion culture are not in synch at this time. I do believe in some parallel universe we are blissfully together.  <br />
I have already told him when his SO and him move in together I am out of the relationship.<br />
Until then, I am enjoying every moment of attention from this amazing man There truly isn't another unique individual out there like him. And I have no regrets. Life is meant to be Lived and well loved.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Married man in an EMR]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21968</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2025 18:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3649">HappyAgain</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hello everyone, I'm a married man in an EMR with a coworker. Our work relationship evolved into an emotional bond while she was going through her divorce and then became physical when she was officially divorced and living on her own. There's a 15+ year age gap between us but it hasn't shown to be an issue in our relationship. She knows I'm obligated to my wife and kids and doesn't expect me to leave my wife, but I do feel guilty that I can't give her true commitment.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello everyone, I'm a married man in an EMR with a coworker. Our work relationship evolved into an emotional bond while she was going through her divorce and then became physical when she was officially divorced and living on her own. There's a 15+ year age gap between us but it hasn't shown to be an issue in our relationship. She knows I'm obligated to my wife and kids and doesn't expect me to leave my wife, but I do feel guilty that I can't give her true commitment.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Feel Trapped..]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21952</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 11:34:33 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3641">Shamir123</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi everyone.. I’m have been having an affair with a MM for 17 months. It was virtually love at first sight for me, no man had ever impacted me in that way, he said he felt the same. On our first couple of dates I didn’t know he was married, but when he told me it was too late, I was smitten.<br />
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Fast forward 17 months and we are still here. All his promises to leave have come to nothing, he admitted he is scared, financially and over the emotional impact it would have. They have no children together, it is his second marriage but have been married over 20 years. <br />
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I can’t seem to accept things as they are, to wait as he says he will leave, they are sleeping in separate bedrooms etc. but it hurts too much. But every time I try to end it I go back because I love him and miss him so much. I feel trapped in all of this. I’m in my 50’s and feel like an idiot for letting this happen to me. <br />
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Any advice on how to move on would be greatly appreciated..]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi everyone.. I’m have been having an affair with a MM for 17 months. It was virtually love at first sight for me, no man had ever impacted me in that way, he said he felt the same. On our first couple of dates I didn’t know he was married, but when he told me it was too late, I was smitten.<br />
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Fast forward 17 months and we are still here. All his promises to leave have come to nothing, he admitted he is scared, financially and over the emotional impact it would have. They have no children together, it is his second marriage but have been married over 20 years. <br />
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I can’t seem to accept things as they are, to wait as he says he will leave, they are sleeping in separate bedrooms etc. but it hurts too much. But every time I try to end it I go back because I love him and miss him so much. I feel trapped in all of this. I’m in my 50’s and feel like an idiot for letting this happen to me. <br />
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Any advice on how to move on would be greatly appreciated..]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Shattered and looking to find someone who understands]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21942</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2025 10:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3638">Mis/aligned.</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hello<br />
<br />
I am married with a three year old daughter and was involved in an affair for last 6 months. My affair partner and I have known each other on and off for 13 years, always reconnecting and somehow finding our way back into one another’s lives. This last time we reconnected it was all to much to deny anymore and we started a relationship. It was a love neither of us had ever felt and truly believed that we kept reconnecting because it was meant to be. We planned a future, a family, everything. He told me he loved me and I was his person and had always been since the day we first kissed 13 years ago. <br />
He told me several months ago he was ready to leave his partner, whom he has a 2 year old with. She also found out about us and despite it being a horrible way for it to end, he said he felt relieved it was finally over. He recently moved out to his mother’s. One week after being out of his family home, he sent me a text without warning, no lead up at all, saying he couldn’t talk to me or see me anymore as he needed his family and if he continued to have me in his life, he would lose his family and his own life. He then blocked me on everything. I did manage to get in contact and he told me that while he was still in the home with her, despite being in separate rooms and him telling me it was hostile, he always held hope for her. My heart is broken because I truly believed in us. <br />
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I am shattered beyond words as I truly thought this was the love of my life. I haven’t been able to work and have not eaten a meal in a week. I feel as though I am losing my mind.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello<br />
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I am married with a three year old daughter and was involved in an affair for last 6 months. My affair partner and I have known each other on and off for 13 years, always reconnecting and somehow finding our way back into one another’s lives. This last time we reconnected it was all to much to deny anymore and we started a relationship. It was a love neither of us had ever felt and truly believed that we kept reconnecting because it was meant to be. We planned a future, a family, everything. He told me he loved me and I was his person and had always been since the day we first kissed 13 years ago. <br />
He told me several months ago he was ready to leave his partner, whom he has a 2 year old with. She also found out about us and despite it being a horrible way for it to end, he said he felt relieved it was finally over. He recently moved out to his mother’s. One week after being out of his family home, he sent me a text without warning, no lead up at all, saying he couldn’t talk to me or see me anymore as he needed his family and if he continued to have me in his life, he would lose his family and his own life. He then blocked me on everything. I did manage to get in contact and he told me that while he was still in the home with her, despite being in separate rooms and him telling me it was hostile, he always held hope for her. My heart is broken because I truly believed in us. <br />
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I am shattered beyond words as I truly thought this was the love of my life. I haven’t been able to work and have not eaten a meal in a week. I feel as though I am losing my mind.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Hello Everyone]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21939</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jun 2025 02:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I have been having a relationship with my first love for going on 4 years. I am married and he is married but I am separated from my husband for the last 2 1/2 months.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have been having a relationship with my first love for going on 4 years. I am married and he is married but I am separated from my husband for the last 2 1/2 months.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Hello everyone]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21938</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2025 22:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3636">Twister71</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi everyone. I’m new to the group. I’m probably like a lot of you where I do not have an outside support system. I was the other woman in an affair. unfortunately his wife found out and he feared losing his daughter and financial security and chose to stay with her. I’ve really been struggling with letting go. I’m hoping some of you can help with that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi everyone. I’m new to the group. I’m probably like a lot of you where I do not have an outside support system. I was the other woman in an affair. unfortunately his wife found out and he feared losing his daughter and financial security and chose to stay with her. I’ve really been struggling with letting go. I’m hoping some of you can help with that.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[My story]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21932</link>
			<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2025 03:59:51 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3632">Jennacho2000</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hello, I’m new here. <br />
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I’m divorced, no children, living alone with an aging parent. I’m also the other woman in a relationship with a married man that lives 2,000 miles away. <br />
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He was my high school sweetheart. I broke up with him after a 3-year relationship. He had hurt me and pushed me away and I eventually closed the door on the relationship and moved on. Throughout the years, I thought about him fondly every now and then but never would have reached out. After all, he was the one that rejected me. <br />
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Fast forward to last year, he reached out to me (30 years later) on social media and I replied. We agree to meet up - I was shocked that he’d travel so far just to see me. <br />
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He’s married, with kids and in a self described dead marriage. He said that the marriage is over, they just haven’t divorced. They live like roommates and keep up appearances to maintain stability for the kids. <br />
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It’s been 9 months, and we’ve met up several times. Each visit has been amazing. We connect on an emotional as well as a physical level. And yet, our in-person time together is brief and outside of our visits, I’m a secret. I feel deep love but I struggle having to wait while he navigates his complicated situation. It’s quite likely that he won’t move towards separation/divorce until his kids are 18 (5-6 years from now). <br />
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So many mixed feelings - in a relationship that’s “complicated”.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello, I’m new here. <br />
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I’m divorced, no children, living alone with an aging parent. I’m also the other woman in a relationship with a married man that lives 2,000 miles away. <br />
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He was my high school sweetheart. I broke up with him after a 3-year relationship. He had hurt me and pushed me away and I eventually closed the door on the relationship and moved on. Throughout the years, I thought about him fondly every now and then but never would have reached out. After all, he was the one that rejected me. <br />
<br />
Fast forward to last year, he reached out to me (30 years later) on social media and I replied. We agree to meet up - I was shocked that he’d travel so far just to see me. <br />
<br />
He’s married, with kids and in a self described dead marriage. He said that the marriage is over, they just haven’t divorced. They live like roommates and keep up appearances to maintain stability for the kids. <br />
<br />
It’s been 9 months, and we’ve met up several times. Each visit has been amazing. We connect on an emotional as well as a physical level. And yet, our in-person time together is brief and outside of our visits, I’m a secret. I feel deep love but I struggle having to wait while he navigates his complicated situation. It’s quite likely that he won’t move towards separation/divorce until his kids are 18 (5-6 years from now). <br />
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So many mixed feelings - in a relationship that’s “complicated”.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[sad]]></title>
			<link>https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21919</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2025 20:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.truesupport.org/forum/member.php?action=profile&uid=3515">missblue82</a>]]></dc:creator>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hello, used to post here under a different name. Starting anew for several reasons. I'm at the end of my EMR for the most part.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello, used to post here under a different name. Starting anew for several reasons. I'm at the end of my EMR for the most part.]]></content:encoded>
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