https://www.truesupport.org/forum/ Thu, 09 Jul 2026 23:57:26 +0000 MyBB https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22028 Wed, 08 Jul 2026 15:03:48 +0000 Chelsey]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22028 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22026 Sat, 20 Jun 2026 13:52:41 +0000 Sandy Beach]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22026 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22017 Sun, 07 Jun 2026 01:27:37 +0000 meyou1111888]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22017 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22016 Sat, 06 Jun 2026 15:03:00 +0000 LoverGirly]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22016
He told her last year that he wants to leave but she refuses to agree to doing so amicably, and he's worried about what impact a non-amicable separation would do to his kids.  We haven't had sex as that is the one boundary we committed to upholding.  I have also convinced him to go through marriage counselling with his wife to see if there is any hope of them fixing their relationship.  They're currently going through this process and we'll see what happens.  We've put a 3-month time limit on this and we'll see where we're at after this.

I never thought I'd find myself in this situation, in a million years.  I only have a couple of very close girlfriends that I can talk to, and they are trying to be supportive but they don't love any of this - and I don't blame them at all.]]>
He told her last year that he wants to leave but she refuses to agree to doing so amicably, and he's worried about what impact a non-amicable separation would do to his kids.  We haven't had sex as that is the one boundary we committed to upholding.  I have also convinced him to go through marriage counselling with his wife to see if there is any hope of them fixing their relationship.  They're currently going through this process and we'll see what happens.  We've put a 3-month time limit on this and we'll see where we're at after this.

I never thought I'd find myself in this situation, in a million years.  I only have a couple of very close girlfriends that I can talk to, and they are trying to be supportive but they don't love any of this - and I don't blame them at all.]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22011 Thu, 14 May 2026 00:58:38 +0000 ros.e.pur.]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22011 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22000 Wed, 01 Apr 2026 21:29:44 +0000 Clodiapulchra]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=22000 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21998 Mon, 16 Mar 2026 15:15:04 +0000 2445Boston]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21998 Just sad to think that I might lose him after all this . Anyway this is hard for me to open up . I can tell more of my story later]]> Just sad to think that I might lose him after all this . Anyway this is hard for me to open up . I can tell more of my story later]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21992 Sat, 07 Feb 2026 09:47:20 +0000 girlnextdoor.]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21992
I'm having an affair with someone from my work. It was absolutely not planned, we just fell in love with each other. He has a family as well. Although I think the feelings from his side are true, somtimes I am just stuck between my feelings and my head. I hope to find supportive people here and a place where I can speak freely.]]>
I'm having an affair with someone from my work. It was absolutely not planned, we just fell in love with each other. He has a family as well. Although I think the feelings from his side are true, somtimes I am just stuck between my feelings and my head. I hope to find supportive people here and a place where I can speak freely.]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21989 Fri, 02 Jan 2026 11:14:16 +0000 Aquarius5137]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21989 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21984 Tue, 09 Dec 2025 20:47:50 +0000 Stillfunn]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21984 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21974 Sat, 15 Nov 2025 16:01:52 +0000 mistress_ava_]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21974 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21973 Wed, 12 Nov 2025 02:46:21 +0000 Dayna]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21973 I'm in a situationship with a man, we'll call Eros, who has a long time girlfriend that he has told me he will never leave. They do not live together but spend most weekends together.  
I love our relationship. 
We met about 3 years ago as I was planning a trip and his family is from there so our mutual friend introduced us. We obviously got along very well. At the time I was married,  and when he propositioned me I declined as I love my husband.  
Fast forward to 18 months later my husband was an alcoholic,  got very sick and died by suicide.  I got a job in the same place our mutual friend worked so I reached out to Eros to say thanks for all the help planning my trip, my life imploded and if he still wanted to meet I'd be open to meeting with him.
We have been seeing each other ever since. Its sporadic due to his work, but he calls, texts or emails me practically every day. Sex is off the charts amazing,  friendly banter is fantastic and I say he keeps me together like twine and drying glue. 
We could never be really together,  I know that, even if he wasn't with his SO , financially, geographically and his religion culture are not in synch at this time. I do believe in some parallel universe we are blissfully together.  
I have already told him when his SO and him move in together I am out of the relationship.
Until then, I am enjoying every moment of attention from this amazing man There truly isn't another unique individual out there like him. And I have no regrets. Life is meant to be Lived and well loved.]]> I'm in a situationship with a man, we'll call Eros, who has a long time girlfriend that he has told me he will never leave. They do not live together but spend most weekends together.  
I love our relationship. 
We met about 3 years ago as I was planning a trip and his family is from there so our mutual friend introduced us. We obviously got along very well. At the time I was married,  and when he propositioned me I declined as I love my husband.  
Fast forward to 18 months later my husband was an alcoholic,  got very sick and died by suicide.  I got a job in the same place our mutual friend worked so I reached out to Eros to say thanks for all the help planning my trip, my life imploded and if he still wanted to meet I'd be open to meeting with him.
We have been seeing each other ever since. Its sporadic due to his work, but he calls, texts or emails me practically every day. Sex is off the charts amazing,  friendly banter is fantastic and I say he keeps me together like twine and drying glue. 
We could never be really together,  I know that, even if he wasn't with his SO , financially, geographically and his religion culture are not in synch at this time. I do believe in some parallel universe we are blissfully together.  
I have already told him when his SO and him move in together I am out of the relationship.
Until then, I am enjoying every moment of attention from this amazing man There truly isn't another unique individual out there like him. And I have no regrets. Life is meant to be Lived and well loved.]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21968 Sun, 19 Oct 2025 18:03:21 +0000 HappyAgain]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21968 https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21952 Mon, 25 Aug 2025 11:34:33 +0000 Shamir123]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21952
Fast forward 17 months and we are still here. All his promises to leave have come to nothing, he admitted he is scared, financially and over the emotional impact it would have. They have no children together, it is his second marriage but have been married over 20 years. 

I can’t seem to accept things as they are, to wait as he says he will leave, they are sleeping in separate bedrooms etc. but it hurts too much. But every time I try to end it I go back because I love him and miss him so much. I feel trapped in all of this. I’m in my 50’s and feel like an idiot for letting this happen to me. 

Any advice on how to move on would be greatly appreciated..]]>
Fast forward 17 months and we are still here. All his promises to leave have come to nothing, he admitted he is scared, financially and over the emotional impact it would have. They have no children together, it is his second marriage but have been married over 20 years. 

I can’t seem to accept things as they are, to wait as he says he will leave, they are sleeping in separate bedrooms etc. but it hurts too much. But every time I try to end it I go back because I love him and miss him so much. I feel trapped in all of this. I’m in my 50’s and feel like an idiot for letting this happen to me. 

Any advice on how to move on would be greatly appreciated..]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21942 Sun, 29 Jun 2025 10:09:34 +0000 Mis/aligned.]]> https://www.truesupport.org/forum/showthread.php?tid=21942
I am married with a three year old daughter and was involved in an affair for last 6 months. My affair partner and I have known each other on and off for 13 years, always reconnecting and somehow finding our way back into one another’s lives. This last time we reconnected it was all to much to deny anymore and we started a relationship. It was a love neither of us had ever felt and truly believed that we kept reconnecting because it was meant to be. We planned a future, a family, everything. He told me he loved me and I was his person and had always been since the day we first kissed 13 years ago. 
He told me several months ago he was ready to leave his partner, whom he has a 2 year old with. She also found out about us and despite it being a horrible way for it to end, he said he felt relieved it was finally over. He recently moved out to his mother’s. One week after being out of his family home, he sent me a text without warning, no lead up at all, saying he couldn’t talk to me or see me anymore as he needed his family and if he continued to have me in his life, he would lose his family and his own life. He then blocked me on everything. I did manage to get in contact and he told me that while he was still in the home with her, despite being in separate rooms and him telling me it was hostile, he always held hope for her. My heart is broken because I truly believed in us. 

I am shattered beyond words as I truly thought this was the love of my life. I haven’t been able to work and have not eaten a meal in a week. I feel as though I am losing my mind.]]>
I am married with a three year old daughter and was involved in an affair for last 6 months. My affair partner and I have known each other on and off for 13 years, always reconnecting and somehow finding our way back into one another’s lives. This last time we reconnected it was all to much to deny anymore and we started a relationship. It was a love neither of us had ever felt and truly believed that we kept reconnecting because it was meant to be. We planned a future, a family, everything. He told me he loved me and I was his person and had always been since the day we first kissed 13 years ago. 
He told me several months ago he was ready to leave his partner, whom he has a 2 year old with. She also found out about us and despite it being a horrible way for it to end, he said he felt relieved it was finally over. He recently moved out to his mother’s. One week after being out of his family home, he sent me a text without warning, no lead up at all, saying he couldn’t talk to me or see me anymore as he needed his family and if he continued to have me in his life, he would lose his family and his own life. He then blocked me on everything. I did manage to get in contact and he told me that while he was still in the home with her, despite being in separate rooms and him telling me it was hostile, he always held hope for her. My heart is broken because I truly believed in us. 

I am shattered beyond words as I truly thought this was the love of my life. I haven’t been able to work and have not eaten a meal in a week. I feel as though I am losing my mind.]]>