02-02-2023, 11:21 PM
Hi everyone - This is my second “new here” post. I was a member of TS when my OA started (2014) and left TS in 2016 - the first time I tried to break things off with my MM. Fast forward to today and we are still involved after 9 years.
I am also M, to a good man who I love dearly, but only platonically. But nothing more (sexless M for the past few years). We have one child.
MM is an old flame from 20+ years ago, a former coworker I had a fling with when I was single and he was newly M. We found each other angsin online years later and that’s how the OA started.
He lives a few states away from me and travels often for work… but with the exception of one in-person lunch meeting a few months ago, everything we’ve done has been online. I fantasize about taking the next step physically IRL but we haven’t gotten up the nerve yet. (We are stuck in a “push pull / hot cold” cycle due to mutual guilt over the situation - which I’ve finally accepted will never change).
I remain hopeful that we will work up to a real meeting and consummate the R soon.
Anyway, I remember TS as a wonderful support system for me years ago and I want to reconnect here again for my own sanity and mental health. I look forward to getting to know you all (again), and supporting each other (again).
Thank you!
I am also M, to a good man who I love dearly, but only platonically. But nothing more (sexless M for the past few years). We have one child.
MM is an old flame from 20+ years ago, a former coworker I had a fling with when I was single and he was newly M. We found each other angsin online years later and that’s how the OA started.
He lives a few states away from me and travels often for work… but with the exception of one in-person lunch meeting a few months ago, everything we’ve done has been online. I fantasize about taking the next step physically IRL but we haven’t gotten up the nerve yet. (We are stuck in a “push pull / hot cold” cycle due to mutual guilt over the situation - which I’ve finally accepted will never change).
I remain hopeful that we will work up to a real meeting and consummate the R soon.
Anyway, I remember TS as a wonderful support system for me years ago and I want to reconnect here again for my own sanity and mental health. I look forward to getting to know you all (again), and supporting each other (again).
Thank you!
