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Older member, same guy
#1
Hi there, I was on this board a few years ago and can't seem to log back into my old account.  At any rate.  Short version he was married, left her, then went into a relationship with someone else.  I've been on and off with him for the past 6 years not really caring anymore, but now I suspect his is in a third relationship with a third woman and that seems to bother me.  Weird huh?
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#2
Welcome back! Yeah, there's no guarantee even if the MP divorces that he/she will continue the relationship with the other person. When Lance separated from his wife, he felt the air under his wings, he could choose any woman in the whole world, not just me. For him it only lasted a short while, but I can definitely see how that would be hard on you.

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Lance  Heart  Gwen
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#3
Hi and Welcome back!

Can you share your old username?

I don’t blame you for being upset that he’s with another OP. When I found out that Gable had prior OOW that he was still emailing and talking to, I told him I signed up for one MM outside my M and since he told me I “was his first EMR” that I expected to be his only AP and would walk if I wasn’t. He made some phone calls and ended those lingering contacts.

How do you know this or why do you suspect?
No regrets
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