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Hi, new here...4 years & am generally happy
Little Feet Offline
virgin
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Joined: May 2023
#1
05-25-2023, 10:12 AM
Hi, been with this guy for a while. I love him, he loves me. But he has a gf. At times it does not bother me, but the times it does, I can't think straight. He spends most of his time with me, but protects her...which I get...but I guess I wouldn't mind being the one and only and yeah, It makes me sad. I don't like being sad
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Gwen Offline
light year club
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#2
05-25-2023, 12:36 PM
I sure can understand you wanting to be the one and only. I found it hard with my MM being so protective of his wife. He could see no faults with her, perhaps because he felt he was deceiving her.

Welcome
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Foreternity Offline
all the way
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#3
05-25-2023, 01:21 PM
Welcome, very understandable feelings. 4 years is also a lot of push and pull time. 

Hope you feel better and get to hear more of your story
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