03-17-2012, 04:58 PM
OK I have to weigh in on "Cake-Eater".
First of all it is always applied by BSs to describe the MM. Because of course the MM has his wife AND his other woman. He is having his cake and eating it too!
OK we could digress into all the analogies about how the wife must be the cake and he is eating the other woman (which would explain why the OWs seem happier than the wives I guess).
But really! What is the implication? That we should NOT be cake-eaters! That we should stay in the marriage because THAT is like NOT being a cake-eater. So marriage is like NOT having your cake and eating it too! So its like having your cake and NOT eating it I suppose or maybe eating your cake and not having it?
The basic idea is that the MM is getting some kind of unfairly better world than anyone is allowed. He is
cheat-ing the system which requires that marriage (and even all relationships) represent some kind of win/lose situation. He must PAY for being married (Just like God intended!). He may be happy on one level but it must be payed for by being unhappy some where else. Apparently no man is allowed to completely enjoy a relationship.
So maybe that's why they call it cheat-ing. Its as if the MM is doing what every man would like to but
"cheat-ing" the system which requires that no one be completely happy.
Wait he gets to have a housewife AND monkey sex? That's not fair! He is cheat-ing! We would all cheat if it was allowed but then the world would collapse!
Besides the entire effort of humanity has been to allow us to eat cake and have it too. Where did this term even come from? Who the hell wants to KEEP their cake. I will always eat the cake and then get more!
If I couldn't get more I would still eat it. Whats the point of keeping it until you die? Oh bury me with my cake because I didn't eat it! Its a dumb expression used by even dumber people.
Which leads me to the even dumber expression...
"Why should he buy the cow if he can get the milk for free?"
This is usually said by people who...
1) apparently see them selves as cows
2) often look like cows
3) equate sex with milking a cow
4) feel that this should be paid for
So these are people who feel that a man should pay them for sex. Using the term "Cow" to refer to them is an insult to cows everywhere.
(ohh that rant felt good)
First of all it is always applied by BSs to describe the MM. Because of course the MM has his wife AND his other woman. He is having his cake and eating it too!
OK we could digress into all the analogies about how the wife must be the cake and he is eating the other woman (which would explain why the OWs seem happier than the wives I guess).
But really! What is the implication? That we should NOT be cake-eaters! That we should stay in the marriage because THAT is like NOT being a cake-eater. So marriage is like NOT having your cake and eating it too! So its like having your cake and NOT eating it I suppose or maybe eating your cake and not having it?
The basic idea is that the MM is getting some kind of unfairly better world than anyone is allowed. He is
cheat-ing the system which requires that marriage (and even all relationships) represent some kind of win/lose situation. He must PAY for being married (Just like God intended!). He may be happy on one level but it must be payed for by being unhappy some where else. Apparently no man is allowed to completely enjoy a relationship.
So maybe that's why they call it cheat-ing. Its as if the MM is doing what every man would like to but
"cheat-ing" the system which requires that no one be completely happy.
Wait he gets to have a housewife AND monkey sex? That's not fair! He is cheat-ing! We would all cheat if it was allowed but then the world would collapse!
Besides the entire effort of humanity has been to allow us to eat cake and have it too. Where did this term even come from? Who the hell wants to KEEP their cake. I will always eat the cake and then get more!
If I couldn't get more I would still eat it. Whats the point of keeping it until you die? Oh bury me with my cake because I didn't eat it! Its a dumb expression used by even dumber people.
Which leads me to the even dumber expression...
"Why should he buy the cow if he can get the milk for free?"
This is usually said by people who...
1) apparently see them selves as cows
2) often look like cows
3) equate sex with milking a cow
4) feel that this should be paid for
So these are people who feel that a man should pay them for sex. Using the term "Cow" to refer to them is an insult to cows everywhere.
(ohh that rant felt good)
