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Foreternity Offline
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#21
04-14-2023, 06:17 AM
(04-14-2023, 03:28 AM)Daisy Rose Wrote: I can understand why someone would want to keep the two relationships separate, independent of each other. I tried to do that when I was married. But the reality is that each relationship does affect the other to some degree.

Absolutely. It's like tug o war, you give to one and take from the other. I couldn't handle seeing my MW and making love to her and coming home pretending I loved my life. It did strain my family quickly, that I grew tired almost right away and called it quits.
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Red5 Offline
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#22
04-19-2023, 08:11 PM
(04-12-2023, 05:15 AM)Foreternity Wrote: Its great to find this forum.. I have so much to share and hope our stories can bring clairy and relief for one another. I am a OM once a MM , been in an EMR for now exactly 4 years. Tons of emotions ups and downs and feeling defeated now more than ever. I wish you all love and happiness to the fullest in the way you seek. Thank you for having me

Welcome! I am an OW, once a MW/BW so I can understand that.
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