05-07-2025, 04:23 PM
Hello, used to post here under a different name. Starting anew for several reasons. I'm at the end of my EMR for the most part.
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05-07-2025, 04:56 PM
Im right there with you I feel like mine is just completely over. I got a text message last week saying he’s moving and that he knows I’ll be good and he will be good also. 2 days ago I found out he is still in town so I don’t know if he was lying to get me away from him but I’m hurting without him but I will not contact him I feel to avoid the emotional rollercoaster and damage I need to just move forward from this.
05-07-2025, 05:57 PM
(05-07-2025, 04:56 PM)Ilovepurple Wrote: Im right there with you I feel like mine is just completely over. I got a text message last week saying he’s moving and that he knows I’ll be good and he will be good also. 2 days ago I found out he is still in town so I don’t know if he was lying to get me away from him but I’m hurting without him but I will not contact him I feel to avoid the emotional rollercoaster and damage I need to just move forward from this. Yes, I feel you. In my case I am the one choosing to end the relationship. Just too painful now. Does it feel hard to live without him? Yes, unbelievably so. I am holding onto hope that after the intense pain, I will find intense joy.
05-07-2025, 06:06 PM
I feel like there’s so many of us at the end of most our EMR.. there are moments where I literally feel like I can’t breathe. When I am able to finally ground myself I have to tell myself I am worth more than being with someone who isn’t available. I deserve better. You deserve better also. I’m just trying to take it day by day and keep breathing . Today I was outdoors as much as possible I feel that helps I still cried for him but I’m hoping it gets better
05-07-2025, 10:08 PM
(05-07-2025, 06:06 PM)Ilovepurple Wrote: I feel like there’s so many of us at the end of most our EMR.. there are moments where I literally feel like I can’t breathe. When I am able to finally ground myself I have to tell myself I am worth more than being with someone who isn’t available. I deserve better. You deserve better also. I’m just trying to take it day by day and keep breathing . Today I was outdoors as much as possible I feel that helps I still cried for him but I’m hoping it gets better Same with the not being able to breathe. I deserve better but I'm a bit afraid I won't find it. He really loved me for who I am.
05-07-2025, 10:25 PM
(05-07-2025, 10:08 PM)missblue82 Wrote: Same with the not being able to breathe. And I don't really want anyone else, I want him. He knows every part of me and loves them all. I've never had anyone treat me the way he does.
05-09-2025, 10:16 AM
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I am dealing with so many different emotions right now.
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