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Twister71 Offline
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Joined: Jun 2025
#1
06-26-2025, 06:03 PM
Hi everyone. I’m new to the group. I’m probably like a lot of you where I do not have an outside support system. I was the other woman in an affair. unfortunately his wife found out and he feared losing his daughter and financial security and chose to stay with her. I’ve really been struggling with letting go. I’m hoping some of you can help with that.
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OUrania Offline
light year club
Posts: 3,053
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Joined: Apr 2018
#2
06-26-2025, 06:20 PM
(06-26-2025, 06:03 PM)Twister71 Wrote: Hi everyone. I’m new to the group. I’m probably like a lot of you where I do not have an outside support system. I was the other woman in an affair. unfortunately his wife found out and he feared losing his daughter and financial security and chose to stay with her. I’ve really been struggling with letting go. I’m hoping some of you can help with that.

I feel for you Twister.  There are many stories similar to yours on here.

Keep reading.  Everyone has their own version. Everyone has their own recovery time. 

A  lot of people on here advise to keep no contact,  get some new interests and keep busy.  

Cheers,
Ourania. Heart
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Rulebender Offline
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06-26-2025, 07:20 PM
Welcome Twister
Keep reading and posting it will help you get through this difficult process.

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Brigit Offline
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06-27-2025, 06:10 PM
Im sorry to hear that but welcome to TS!!
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