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Between my head and hart.
#1
Hi all, 

I'm having an affair with someone from my work. It was absolutely not planned, we just fell in love with each other. He has a family as well. Although I think the feelings from his side are true, somtimes I am just stuck between my feelings and my head. I hope to find supportive people here and a place where I can speak freely.
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#2
Welcome, we do know the feeling!
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#3
Welcome. This site is great!
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#4
(02-07-2026, 05:47 AM)girlnextdoor. Wrote: Hi all, 

I'm having an affair with someone from my work. It was absolutely not planned, we just fell in love with each other. He has a family as well. Although I think the feelings from his side are true, somtimes I am just stuck between my feelings and my head. I hope to find supportive people here and a place where I can speak freely.

Many of us understand the feeling and the situation. I remember feeling like I could not talk to people about my situation as many people have their own opinions about it. I hope and believe you will find the support you are looking for. I definitely have.
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