03-15-2015, 02:55 AM
In a way True Support is an experiment in that it is equally for other men/women, married other men/women and wayward spouses. I don't know of any other forum on the internet which has this as a clear stated intention. This leaves us with a responsibility to make sure the forum caters to the needs and challenges of these three different groups of participants in extramarital relationships.
One challenge the other men/women meet is to focus on themselves rather than on the married woman/man they are in a relationship with. This is true in real life and this is true on the forum. It's like with the wife of an alcoholic. It's detrimental for her to focus on getting him sober. Let's not focus on getting our own or someone else's married woman/man to leave their marriage.
True Support is a place for self-discovery, for sharing our experiences, for working on our own process of evolving on our path through life. Let's leave space for everyone on our forum to discover their own truths rather than try selling them ours.
One challenge the other men/women meet is to focus on themselves rather than on the married woman/man they are in a relationship with. This is true in real life and this is true on the forum. It's like with the wife of an alcoholic. It's detrimental for her to focus on getting him sober. Let's not focus on getting our own or someone else's married woman/man to leave their marriage.
True Support is a place for self-discovery, for sharing our experiences, for working on our own process of evolving on our path through life. Let's leave space for everyone on our forum to discover their own truths rather than try selling them ours.
