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It isn't the sex
#1
I found myself upset this weekend because my MM went hiking with his wife. No sex, no romance, but the knowledge that I could not hang out and do normal things like that made me sad. I guess that he seemingly enjoyed that time together was new to me. But I am making an assumption.  Anyway,  oddly, that's what I find hard. It's been over a year and in general everything is great.  Funny what can take your knees out sometimes.
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#2
Oh Jaye, I so hear you and empathise.

My MM thankfully rarely goes out and, when he does, it's always the whole family. The thought of him going out with BW without the children would be heartbreaking.

It's completely understandable you feel the way you do.

Sending love and a hug x
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#3
(Yesterday, 04:29 PM)Emilyj Wrote: Oh Jaye, I so hear you and empathise.

My MM thankfully rarely goes out and, when he does, it's always the whole family. The thought of him going out with BW without the children would be heartbreaking.

It's completely understandable you feel the way you do.

Sending love and a hug x
Thank you, Emilyj.  I really appreciate your kindness. TBH, I think it was more about taking the dog on vacation but still....lol
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