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Hi ,Call me Apple a 45 yrs old and just left my married lover for almost 10 yrs .
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Hi ,Call me Apple Im 45 yrs  old and just left my married lover for almost 10 yrs .
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(08-26-2026, 05:43 AM)Scorpio06 Wrote: Hi ,Call me Apple Im 45 yrs  old and just left my married lover for almost 10 yrs .

Hi Apple, I’m sorry you’re going through this. I get the sense that you waited a long time to finally find the strength to leave? 

Would you like to say a bit more? 

We are a supportive community, many will understand your situation well.
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(08-26-2026, 05:43 AM)Scorpio06 Wrote: Hi ,Call me Apple Im 45 yrs  old and just left my married lover for almost 10 yrs .

Hi Apple,

I imagine this was a big decision. I've been with my MM for over a decade and it doesn't get any easier, in some ways it gets harder as the hope starts to fade.....

Look forward to hearing more from you but sending you a hug in the meantime x
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(08-26-2026, 05:43 AM)Scorpio06 Wrote: Hi ,Call me Apple Im 45 yrs  old and just left my married lover for almost 10 yrs .

Hi and welcome.

I admire you for leaving a long term situation--had to have been very tough. Can you share more with what made you finally reach that decision?

Best,
Greengirl
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